Next Steps: Ear Stretch 10 gauge to 8 gauge

Hello lovies! My goodies came into the mail today from Minkymonky! Woo hoo! So I stretched to 8 gauge today and this may be my last one. I maaaaayyy go to 6 gauge but I am not sure. I like how this one looks and 6 gauge may be a bit too big for the placement of this second hole.

This stretch wasn't too difficult and I can say is definitely a noticeable gauge. The other ones were kinda small and didn't look all that obvious. My boo has zero gauge in his ears and they are adorable! A coworker of mine also has zeroes in his ears and he said that he felt 8 gauge was the first stretch he did where he noticed a difference. Granted, he went from 12 to 8! Bad boy!

I followed the same process as I outlined in my original post. I will say that this one was harder to get my tunnel in. The taper went in just fine, with the usual slight burning. I kept it in place for a minute or so and then tried to follow immediately after with the tunnel. That was a no go. I got the first third of the eyelet in and then it wouldn't budge. I had to slowly push it through (it was oiled up with jojoba oil too). I could feel it going in slowly. It did not hurt at all but I had to be sure I didn't put too much pressure because I did not want a blowout. Google it, eeeww!

This may be the last ear stretch post, guys! Oh well. I have a few hair products I've tried out so look forward to that..

8 gauge 316L surgical steel taper $3.74

8 gauge Clear CZ Prong Ear gauge/Plug $4.65 (left)

8 gauge 316L Steel Single Flare Ear Gauge/Flesh Tunnel $1.92 (right)

Isn't it cuuuute?!

Dear Pluto..

Sorry guys..this one is not about beauty or a product. It's about a douchebag...lol. I do a bit of poetry but have never really shared it with anybody. Normally I feel the urge to write at very random moments and find myself scribbling my thoughts on some scrap paper or half used napkin. I felt the need to type this one out after my "ah ha" moment at work today. Pluto knows who he is..

So who wouldn’t fall for you?

When you’re a woman with a lonely soul and emptiness that only a

Warm embrace and handsome face…can cure.

Yes, I’m broken

Down and out, shaken and stirred

Feeling…

…..so hopeless

See, this isn’t the first time I’ve been

Lied to, taken advantage of, and had tons of game

Spit, spat, drip, drop

So wet as my thoughts go to feeling your

Manhood..

….All of you

Not just the dick, but..

All…of…you

Your mind, body, and soul…thoughts, fears, and goals..

All…of…you

Living the dream in my head

But the planets aren’t aligned

See, I’m on Jupiter and you’re on Pluto

And see apparently Pluto doesn’t exist anymore

What once was a planet with a sense of worth is

Not even on the radar…kinda like you

YOU.HAD.ME

I was on your team, your side, your tribe

But you booted Me…kinda like Pluto

But what you failed to realize is that big things come in small packages

See now you are alone with your

So called ‘friends’ and complicated ‘family’

Do they know you?

Does anybody know you?

Knock Knock..Who’s there?

NOBODY

An emptiness…a shell..a cocoon with no butterfly

So in a way, we aren’t so different

Me: Feeling alone because nobody ‘wants’ me but

You: All alone because you choose to be

“It’s too fast, too much, I can’t deal..”

“I DON’T HAVE TIME FOR THIS SHIT!”

See in my eyes, living on this earth is all about dealing with “this shit”

Being challenged, and pushed, and pulled in so many directions

Because I feel our LORD JESUS CHRIST suffered for us so,

Now it’s…our turn

My sins have been wiped clean and so

Now it’s...my turn

To live and love, to be kind, to be humble, to grow, to push through

The BULLSHIT

So, with that said Pluto

I still believe in you..

You may be off the radar, but you do exist

I can’t deny your reality, but I can keep you

Far, far, far away..

Next Steps: Ear Stretch 12 gauge to 10 gauge

10 gauge ear stretch

Hey lovies! I did my third stretch today. It was cake! I ordered from MinkyMonky again. This time I stuck with the steel taper since last time trying my acrylic taper was a disaster! Just like predicted, the steel taper was a breeze. This was my first steel taper from MinkyMonky and I notice they are much longer than BodyArtforms. This was also the first time I took a look at a taper and thought "Whoa! That is thick!" I was a bit worried that this stretch might hurt a bit more but nope. Good ol Jojoba oil made it just fine. I also heard of this stuff called Holey Butt'r which is like a cream mixed with different cocoa butters, oils, etc. that is good as well. Check it out!

I chose another simple piece of steel jewelry. I probably have about two more stretches to go before I am done.

For those wondering how my ear looks without jewelry, I included a pic. You really can't see a drastic difference between my other holes (the one in the middle is the one I am stretching)

12 gauge ear hole (middle) before stretch

10 gauge taper, $3.74

10 gauge 316L Surgical Steel Single Flare Ear Gauge/Flesh Tunnel, $1.92

10 gauge 316L Surgical Steel Flathead Ear Gauge/Plug, $1.92

Happy Stretching!

Next Steps: Ear Stretch 14 gauge to 12 gauge

Hiiii!

So today my package came in with my materials for my next stretch. This time I decided to order from Minky Monky. On most websites, there are not a lot of cute ear plug options out there for anything smaller than 10 gauge. BodyArtforms has really cute 12 gauge plugs but I could not justify spending $15 on something I would only be wearing for a month until my next stretch so I searched around and found Minky Monky and got a simple Surgical Steel Single Flare Flesh tunnel (basically a hollow plug..you can actually see through the hole in my ear) and a CZ ear plug. Simple and cute and only a couple of bucks each.

12g Blue UV Glow in the dark Taper ($1.99)

12g 316L Surgical Steel Single Flare Flesh Tunnel (far left, $1.92)

12g Clear CZ Black Titanium Plated (over steel) Prong Set Plug ($5.40)

For this stretch I followed the same routine as I did in my stretch from 16 gauge to 14 gauge. I noticed there were two things different:

This time I didn't do my stretch after my shower so I just washed the area with Dial soap and did an ear massage for about 5 minutes (that's why my ear looks a little red in some photos). This may have made a difference.

Also, I chose to purchase an acrylic taper because it was cheap and I didn't think it would make a difference because once I use it for the stretch it doesn't stay in my ear at all. I know acrylic is not good for jewelery for a new stretch because the material is porous and can lead to infection but I thought it would be fine to use as a quick taper.

Boy was I wrong! This made ALL THE DIFFERENCE! First, it didn't slide as smooth as a steel taper. I thought it was just because it's a bigger jump of a stretch but no..it literally got stuck in my ear. When I first put it in, it was just fine..I felt the normal sting and it was good until about halfway there. This thing would NOT budge. I didn't want to force it so I was about to give up and go back to 14 gauge. I just let it sit in my ear for a bit and tried again and it still would not move. I took it out and wanted to see if my steel flesh tunnel would go in at all. I wanted to get a feel for how much I was able to stretch it at all with the acrylic taper. Wouldn't you know my steel flesh tunnel slid right in..no pain no nothing! Hmmmm? I can only chalk it up to this cheap ass taper. It may glow in the dark (who cares?) but it surely did not taper anything. Lesson learned!

Aint it cute? xoxo t.marie

Product Rave: Bodycology Body Cream and Moisturizing Hand Sanitizer

Hi all! So I spotted these products in the travel section at Walmart when I was looking for a new hand cream to leave in my purse. I stumbled upon gold! I loooveeeee these lotions sooo much!

They are so thick and moisturizing and smell awesome. They definitely kept my hands crack and ash free during winter. The slogan is "lasting moisture with a light fragrance" and it describes this product perfectly! They retail for about $1.97 for a 2 ounce tube. You can purchase the large sizes of these lotions in the spa section of Wamart, but I prefer the convenience of the small tubes and I also like to switch up my smells.

My favorite scent is Coconut Lime. It smells like the beach or tropical island and reminds me of margaritas. I've tried Cucumber Melon, Cherry Blossom, and Sweet Petals and haven't found a smelly one yet! I always get compliments from people after I put on the lotion because they smell so yummy!

This is the only hand cream that I continue to buy over and over again. Normally, I will buy a travel tube of regular lotion and lose it part way or get bored with it! This will definitely be a staple product and must have in my purse. The only problem is that a lot of times they are sold out or the choices are limited. So now I make a habit to pass by the travel section whenever I am in Walmart and just stock up on them because they go fast!

As for the hand sanitizer I was looking for a new sanitizer that had a fragrance. I am impressed at how these sanitizers actually moisturize your skin. It must be because it contains aloe vera, even though it is alcohol based. It's a very different feeling than your typical alcohol based sanitizer that dries out your skin.

Overall, I love love love this! Check it out!

Dupe Alert: M by Mariah Eau de Parfum Spray

So I received the M by Mariah perfume set YEEAARRRSSSSS ago and have barely made a dent in the bottle. I do wear it often but perfume just seems to take forever to use up! I got the 3.3 fluid ounce bottle, the Shimmering Powder brush (silver shimmering powder w/ the same scent), and the 3.4 ounce Body Lotion as a Christmas present. My Dad bought it on the military base, so it was discounted but I do not remember the price. A quick scan online and it seems that the 3.3 ounce bottle alone retails for about $35 to $60 (didn't look at shipping costs).

About 6 months ago I was on the hunt for a few different body sprays (not perfumes) because I wanted something a bit more light. I headed to Bath and Body Works and picked up a few of the travel size sprays because I wanted something I could keep in my purse or my car or wherever. Toting around a glass container of perfume (let along a huge 3.3 ounce glass bottle with a giant glass butterfly as a cap) is just not happening! The travel sized sprays are in a plastic container and are great!

One of the Fragrance Mists (formerly knows as Body Splashes), Black Amethyst, smelled familiar but I couldn't put my finger on it. Fast forward several months and it finally dawned on me! Black Amethyst and M by Mariah smell the same! Ha ha! The difference? M by Mariah can cost up to $60. The 3 ounce travel sized Black Amethyst is FIVE BUCKS! Oh, and I also got it on the buy 3 for $10 deal so it was even cheaper! You decide!

xoxo t.marie

Next Steps: Ear Stretch 16 gauge to 14 gauge

Hi all!

As I showed you in one of my last entries, I'm stretching my second hole. Well, today I stretched to 14 gauge and it's so cute!

First things first..I waited about 3 weeks between putting 16 gauge in to stretching to 14 gauge. I got my products from Bodyartforms. I also sanitized my jewelry (the taper, plugs, and o-rings) by soaking it in boiling water and alcohol for about 15 minutes. While my jewelry was soaking, I removed my 16 gauge jewelry and soaped up my ear with the dial soap and rinsed thoroughly with water. I then took a shower and while in the shower I massaged my ear to allow more blood to flow to the ear and maximized circulation (supposedly, this makes the stretch easier). After my shower I rinsed the jewelry with clean water and washed my hands again. I then put a drop of the jojoba oil on my finger and spread it across the taper. I slowly pushed the taper through my ear and it went in smoothly until about the last third of the way. Then I felt a slight tingle (but no resistance!) and continued to slowly push through.

THIS SHOULD NOT HURT YOU! If it hurts, stop, and put your other jewelry back in and wait because your ear is not ready. You should only feel a slight tingle or burning sensation..NO RIPPING, TEARING, TUGGING!

I then let the taper sit for about a minute. I placed the end of my o-ring onto my plug (the star) and then pushed the steel plug through the front of my ear ear while simultaneously removing the taper out of the back end of my ear. I then placed my circle o-ring on the backside of my ear to hold the plug in place and voila! I am now stretched to 14 gauge! I do not feel any major soreness, but I do feel a slight tingle still in my ear. I will be sure to rotate the plug and do my Dial soap washes. So far so good!

When I get to larger gauges there is much cuter jewelry available but for now I will settle for a simple steel plug (which is probably healthiest for my ear anyway) and just jazz it up with different o-rings. I got them in black, red, glitter charcoal, cobalt, flowers, etc and they were super cheap!

STEEL Stretching kit ($7.00) which comes with a taper and two ear plugs.

Dial Antibacterial Soap ($2?) Jojoba Oil ($7 from Sally Beauty)

Right Ear: 14g steel ear plug ($7.00 kit) w/ black silicone star o-ring ($0.50) and top cartilage

Close Up: 14g steel ear plug with black silicone star o-ring

Left Ear: Two 2mm cubic zirconia earrings ($8 pair) and One 3mm Pink Opal Silver earring ($19 pair) in middle cartilage, both from Overstock.com

See...I'm definitely going to keep it girly!

xoxo t.marie

Your are doing WHAT to your ears?!

Hoollaaa!

Sooo, when I was fresh out of high school and in college I had a number of piercings that I adored. Fast forward to age 21 and I decided to take most of them out. Fast forward to having a baby and I decided that even more should come out. Fast forward three years and I'm bored and am looking for a change and creative outlook. I already have fun with my hair, nails, and makeup. So how about I play with my ears?! Lol..

Okay for reals. I am 'gauging' my second hole in my right ear. I have three lower lobe holes in each ear but I RARELY wear anything but earrings in my first hole that I've had since I was a baby. I decided to switch that up. I got a few 2mm (think baby earrings) cubic zirconia earrings that I plan to wear in my left ear holes and I only plan to wear two (inlcuding the stretched hole) in my right ear . Oh yeah, I also have my middle cartilage done on my left ear and the top cartilage done on my top right ear. Confusing? Eh! You will see pics along the way..

I did my research on ear tapering and don't plan on skipping any sizes as I stretch, especially because I rarely ever used my second hole. I'm using all stainless steel products which I purchased from Bodyartforms. I got my Dial soap ready for cleanings along with my salt soaks. If you have questions on ear stretching please do your research because I am NO PROFESSIONAL nor am I promoting a how to guide on how to do this!

I also do NOT plan on stretching very far..maybe an 8 gauge or a 6 gauge. I still want to have very feminine and girly ears. I also don't want to go too far because supposedly the point of 'no return' is about 0 gauge or 00 gauge.

So I am currently at a 16 gauge and have a small eyebrow ring in there now. I just ordered my 14 gauge stuff and plan on 'jazzing it up' with a star or flower o-ring (again..pics will be coming as I go through this!)

So..here is my first pic...ta daaaa! See my third hole. I don't plan on wearing anything in there but on my other ear I will.

ta ta for now! xoxo t.marie

NOTD: Spring Fling!

I was feeling very SPRINGY when I chose these colors. I wanted to do something fun and different. I absolutely adore spring florals, peaches, greens, blues, and pastels! I loooveee it! This look is best when you use polishes of the same family (ie, these are both cream polishes). Keep metallics with metallics, shimmers with shimmers, etc. although a pop of glitter on the ring finger may be cute

FYI: I did my toes in the powder blue color!

PS.I know they aren't perfectly polished but oh well!

PRODUCTS USED:

Nail Magic as a basecoat

Sinful Colors in Innocent ($1.99 from Walgreens)

Eva Supreme nail lacquer in Powder Blue (I think I got this for 99 cents at Walmart!)

Seche Vite Fast Dry Topcoat

LOTD: Purple Champagne

Hi guys!

I meant to post this a loonnnggg time ago but I've been lazy. I really love love love how this look came out. It came out a golden purple look that was awesome! Enjoy!

PRODUCTS USED:

FACE:

Neutrogena Oil Free Moisturizing Face Lotion

MAC Matte as a primer

MAC MSF Natural in Dark

ELF HD Finishing Powder

EYES:

Two Faced Shadow Insurance as Primer

NYX Jumbo Pencil in Purple as a Base (This is a blueish purple)

Loreal Hip Metallic Shadow Duo in Sculpted (light pinky color all over lid; dark purple in the outer v)

Ben Nye Lumiere Grande Color in Luxor (my fav Ben Nye shadow; a quick sweep all over lid to make the color pop and outer lower lash line)

NYX eyeshadow in Eggplant in crease

MAC loose pigment in Rose Gold on lower inner corner lash line

Sonia Kashuk Enhanced Eye Shadow in Burnished (metallic taupe on brow bone)

NYX eyeshadow in Champagne as highlight

Maybelline Line Stiletto eyeliner in Black

Maybelline Volum Express Mascara in Black

CHEEKS:

NYX Pressed Blush in Raisin (mauve)

NYC Bronzer in Terracotta Tan

LIPS:

NYX Jumbo Lip Pencil in Pecan

NYX Round Lipgloss in Real Nude