The life and times of t. marie, mother, daughter, sister, explorer, and dreamer. Reciprocity means: A reciprocal condition or relationship. A mutual or cooperative interchange of favors or privileges, especially the exchange of rights or privileges of trade between nations. I share, you learn, and vice versa.
Saturday, October 30, 2010
LOTD: Plain Jane!
Friday, October 22, 2010
Review: Garnier Nutritioniste Nutri-Pure Detoxifying Wet Cleansing Towelettes, Oil-Free
Saturday, October 9, 2010
LOTD: Lavender Pink Smokey Eye (88 Palette)
Monday, October 4, 2010
My Hair Regimen: Tips for Curly Hair
Basic Tips:
1. I rarely put heat to my hair.
-The only time a flat iron or blow dryer touches my hair is typically during the colder months when I sometimes straighten my hair. I can say my hair is curly and worn naturallyl 95% of the year. Limit the amount of heat that touches your hair and always use a heat protectant spray like Tresemme's Heat Protection spray or Beyond the Zone's Turn Up The Heat Protection spray.
2. I never use towels on my hair! EVER!
-I dry my hair with t-shirts and wrap it up with microfiber towels while I am putting on lotion, face masks, or whatever other pampering I plan to do before styling my hair. Also, I gently squeeze the towel into my hair to release the water..I never rub! Rubbing creates frizz which is a curly girl's nightmare!
3. After styling I use a method called PLOPPING to wrap my hair before bed.
-Hands down this is one of the best tricks I have learned for curly hair!!! Basically I take a medium sized t-shirt and lay it on a flat surface. Then I flip my head over and push my head into the t-shirt (all of your hair should be smushed onto the top of your head). Then I roll the sides of the t-shirt and pull them behind my head and tie it with a hair tie. Basically it looks like I have a turban on. What this does it creates volume in your hair. I do my hair at night and sleep with it like this. When I wake up the 'turban' has kept all of my hair flat onto the top of my head and hasn't allowed it to rub and frizz up. The result is a bunch of springy, frizz free curls! Google 'plopping' to get a visual or hit me up if you'd like me to do a whole separate entry on that! FYI: The first day after unwrapping your hair from being 'plopped' your curls will be voluminous, but seem a bit tight to your head (because they've been scrunched there for hours!). No worries, they will loosen up and the body will continue to enhance throughout the day!
4. In between washings I wrap my hair at night.
-I have a few old silk scarves that I use. I just wrap it up like you would a bandanna and again it prevents your hair from rubbing and frizzing up. I have heard some people also use silk pillows, but I don't go that far.
5. As soon as I get home all hair ties, bobby pins, etc. come out of my hair!
-We can be pretty rough on our hair with products used to style our hair. That's why it is good to let it breathe! As soon as I get home from work I take my hair down and leave it out. Sometimes I get a big old school scrunchy and loosely put it back in a low pony so that it's out of my face but that's it. I leave it down 80% of the time. This has also made it grow tremendously the last year.
6. I handle my hair as if it an expensive piece of silk
-You would be surprised at how rough you are being with your hair (and skin!)If you stop and take a day to treat your hair as if it is fragile, you will learn how gentle you should be. I only use combs when I am detangling my hair. After that, I rarely put a brush or comb to this mane. In fact, I try not to touch my hair that much at all because touching creates frizz!
Washing and Moisturizing
1. I wash my hair twice a week: no more, no less.
-Curly hair should NOT be washed daily. Our hair coils and moisture gets trapped in the curls. If you wash your hair daily you will dry it out and look a hot mess! My curls typically look great for about three days max so I can normally tell that it's time to wash my hair because they look frizzy.
2. The CurlyGirl Method and Co-Washing
-Go ahead and google the curlygirl method so you understand. Basically, it is a regimen that involves using sulfate free shampoos and silicone free conditioners and styling products. Sulfate strips your hair of your natural oils and the silicone sort of coats your hair which is why it sometimes feels 'oh so soft' after using those products. Eventually your hair gets used to it and creates a layer of silicone and yuckiness with continued use. With the curlygirl method, since you are using silicone free products and there is no build up created, you are able to essentially wash your hair with conditioner only. Every other week you can use a sulfate free shampoo for an extra clean. I used this method for about 4 months and I liked it because I saw tremendous growth. I don't follow it anymore except I only use sulfate free shampoos. I would definitely try using the method to jump start your new health hair lifestyle.
3. A wide tooth comb and detangling is a must!
-I always use a wide tooth comb to detangle my hair while in the shower with conditioner on. I flip my head to the left, detangle, flip to the right detangle, flip upsidedown, detangle, and flip back/upright and detangle. Then I put my hair in a clip and finish the rest of my shower. Rinsing the conditioner off is the last thing I do in the shower. I cannot stress how important detangling is. I had to learn this the hard way. In middle school I was lazy at it and ended up getting a huge knot at the base of my head. I had to cut my hair off and looked crazy!
4. Hair Brands
-I often rotate my brand of shampoos and conditioners because I felt my hair gets used to them and the products don't seem to work as well after a while. I like Beyond the Zone (Sally Beauty), Garnier Fructis, Paul Mitchell, and One and Only brand products the most.
5. After washing/conditioning and t-shirt drying my hair, I apply oil to my ends.
-Normally I use Argan Oil but when that is not available I use good ol' Extra Virgin Olive Oil (EVOO). I just put some on my finger tips and apply directly to my ends. I have layers so I end it by rubbing a tiny bit throughout.
6. I use a hair mask or hot oil treatment about twice a month.
-I am a fan of DIY methods, so normally I will make an avocado hair mask which I have done a tutorial on. There are all kind of at DIY hair you can make with at home products like mayonnaise, honey, avocado, evoo, eggs, etc. Google it and tons of recipes with pop up! Of course you can always purchase hair treatments/deep conditioning treatments but normally I don't do that. Hot oil treatments are always a plus for curly hair!
Styling
1. My favorite hair tool to use is my hands!
-I pretty much do all my hair styling with my fingers. From shaping the curls around my face to making loose parts, I rarely use a comb or brush. Remember, your hair is an expensive piece of silk, so would you drag a sharp comb or rough brush through that? Nope!
2. Leave in conditioner is essential!
-After getting out of the shower and applying my oil to the ends, I follow up with a great leave in conditioner. There are a few brands I like including Paul Mitchell's The Conditioner (or the GVP version at Sally Beauty), Garnier Fructis' Sleek n' Shine leave in conditioner, and Sunsilk's Captivating Curls De-Frizz cream. I flip my head over and apply a generous amount and run it through my hair. I then detangle my hair the same way I did in the shower with a wide tooth comb.
3. I am fan of curl creams and not gels, mousse, or hairspray.
-When I was younger I had crunchy kind of curls because I used gels and mousse. Well, that was then and this is now. I have voluminous, soft, bouncy curls because of the maintenance I keep with my hair and using curl creams! I really like Beyond the Zone's Noodlehead Curling Cream. I have heard Curl-Gel-les'c (pronounced jealousy) by Curls is really good too but I have not tried it. After detangling my hair and combing it into the style I want, I just apply a generous amount to my fingertips and scrunch all around.
4. In between washings I keep my curls looking fresh with good ol' water!
-When I wake up and unwrap my hair I take a little bit of the leave in conditioner and place it on my finger tips, Then I run a bit of water onto my hands and mix it together and 'fluff' my hair. I don't rub the product into my hair, just going around the head in a scrunching motion and paying attention to the areas that seem frizzy.
So there you have it! That is pretty much my entire hair regimen and I hope you find some of the tips to be helpful!
Sunday, October 3, 2010
HOLA! LOTD: Blueberry Peach (88 Matte Palette)
Anyway, because I was living out of boxes and my life was chaotic, makeup was the last thing on my mind. When I did start to pull out the brushes the last thing I wanted to do was snap a pic..until now. I was going through a depressive streak when a friend of mind suggested that I get back to writing (personally and blogging)...and he was right...I'm back people!!
For church today I wore this peach long cardigan with navy blue bottoms and brown boots. I love the muted look of the purple/blue along with the peach. It turns it sort of like a taupe hue and reminds me of the color of denim. The combination is awesome! Enjoy!
PS. Yes my hair is supppeeerrrr long! I can't wait to start straightening it because it is getting cold out here in the midwest already! Oh and I also took this pics with my BlackBerry after running around for a few hours so my face is a bit shiny, but ohhh well!
Friday, July 23, 2010
Happy Birthday To Me!
ONE LOVE to Nichole who completely surprised me with all these makeup goodies! She knows I love makeup and snagged me a BUNCH of things. I got:
ONE LOVE to my brother Keith for watching little man while I got some mommy time out of the house.
Monday, July 19, 2010
The Concept of a Break Up Ring?!
So as I wrote in my last post, I have recently gone through a pretty heartwrenching break up...(ouch!). Well, a lot of my friends note buying shoes, handbags, cutting their hair, and doing whatever to make themselves feel better after a break up. Well...I have done a few things, but my most brilliant idea yet has been my concept of the BREAK UP ring!
If I was 'balling' then I definitely would have dropped some serious dough on buying me a lavish piece of jewely...but I'm a social worker and a single parent (nuff said!). I went ahead and logged onto Overstock.com which is my faaavvvoorriitee spot right now and got the two beauties below. The cross ring is a CZ gem and the Ruby ring is sterling silver with 1/10 cut diamonds. Both are fairly simple but look amazing!
The cross ring I wear on my left hand ring finger (where my wedding ring would have gone!) as a reminder to be married to God. God has called me to singlehood at this time in my life and I am working toward building a better relationship with Him. The Ruby (my birthstone) heart ring is worn on my right hand ring finger and is a reminder to be in a relationship with myself.
Too many times when we are in a relationship, we lose sight of who we are. I am not saying that I lost sight of God or myself while in my prior relationship, but these two items serve as a silent symbol of how important staying true to my faith and to myself really is to me.
PS. The color on my nails is Color Club holo polish in Fashion Addict (looove it!)
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Have a Broken Heart? Buy Some SHOES!!
Friday, July 9, 2010
LOTD: Neutral w/ a POP of Purple! (28 Neutral Palette)
Monday, July 5, 2010
LOTD: Neutral Blue w/ Purple Lips?!
PS. Don't mind the unruly brows...it is time to get them threaded again!
LOTD: Pink Fireworks! (88 Matte Palette/28 Blush Palette)
PRODUCTS USED:
FACE:
Neutrogena Face Moisturizer for Combo Skin
Milk of Magnesia/MAC Matte mix for primer
Neutrogena Clean Oil Control Foundation in Tawny (just a little bit)
Neutrogena Clean Oil Control Pressed Powder in Tawny (light)
No Concealer today
Cheeks:
The brightest pink from the 28 Blush palette
The pink with silver specks from the 28 Blush palette
Eyes:
Two Faced Shadow Insurance as primer
NYX Jumbo Pencil in Orange as a base
Champagne Pink from 88 matte Palette all over lid
Light pink from 88 matte palette on top of champagne pink
Hot pink from 88 matte palette below brow bown
Pinky Purple from 88 matte palette on top of hot pink
Vanilla color for highlight
Sephora Retractrable waterproof eyeliner on upper lid (thick line)
NYX Glitter liner in Pink on top of the gold liner
Maybelline Lash Stiletto line exact in Blackest Black (thin line below the gold)
Maybelline Volum Express Falsies Mascara
Lips:
Wet n Wild lipstick in 502A (this is pretty cool..it's a pink with gold undertone so it makes your lips look metallic)
Rimmel Kiss Off lipgloss in 700 Addicted (I think..it's kind of rubbed off)
I really need a good camera, people! These Blackberry pics are not doing my eyes justice lol. Anybody have any suggestions for an affordable, dope camera?
Saturday, July 3, 2010
LOTD: Orange Sorbet (88 Matte Palette)
My homegirl Latrica said she didn't know how orange lips could be pulled off so I decided to show her! I love bright lips for the summer! The eyes are a golden/orange/brown combo and the lips are straight orange! Of course, I still don't have a high quality camera so BlackBerry pics will have to do. I will say that in person, the lips are much brighter but on camera are appearing more muted and nude..enjoy!
Friday, July 2, 2010
NOTD: Nails 4 Barbie..
To continue with my recent obsession with pink and Barbie I did a Barbie inspired Nail of the Day. Normally I don't show my nails, but I have had a few people compliment me on them recently so I probably will start doing more nail posts. Enjoy!
PRODUCTS USED:
Nail Magic (my secret to long, healthy nails..post to come!)
Seche Vite nail polish base (kind of sucks..brush sucks..don't recommend)
Sinful Colors polish in You Just Wait (BOGO Walgreens $1.99) for entire nail
Pure Ice in Striptease (Walmart $2.00) on tips
Stripe Rite in White (mini design on ring finger)
Seche Vite Fast Dry Topcoat (hands down..the BEST topcoat out there!)
Friday, June 25, 2010
LOTD: Barbie Pink (88 Matte Palette)
PRODUCTS USED:
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Sixth Grader Performs Lady Gaga's 'Paparazzi'
Just thought this little boy was sooooo dope! Had to share!
Sunday, May 16, 2010
LOTD: Just Like Royalty
Saturday, May 15, 2010
LOTD: Nude Blue
Hello all,
It's been a while since I've done a Look of the Day. I haven't really been doing much with my eye makeup recently. Now that I think about it, I haven't been doing much with my face either! Just slapping on some primer and some powder and heading out the door. Lol. This is what I wore Friday. Enjoy!